In the month of December I'm excited to be supporting The Michael J. Fox Foundation. I will donate $0.50 for every comment made on my blog to help their Parkinson's Disease research and treatment efforts.
My mother-in-law is an amazing woman. She is caring, attentive, witty and one of the strongest women I know. I feel so fortunate that I first got to know her fifteen years ago. Our relationship has grown stronger and closer through the years, as I went from her son's girlfriend, to son's fiance, to son's wife, neighbor and friend. Through this time her life has also changed as she was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease 14 years ago.
For the first few years the main symptom she had was that her feet didn't cooperate with her going on her daily run anymore, so she switched to primarily doing yoga, which has been great for her to help with her strength. Then in 2008 she had Deep Brain Stimulator surgery, which is a procedure that implanted a brain pacemaker. The DBS sends electrical impulses to specific parts of the brain to help with movement and other areas affected by Parkinson's. The DBS helped her with quality of life for many years, and still helps some today, but I will admit it's effectiveness has warn off some. I'm not sure if that is because she's had it for almost ten years, or if it is because we are now ten years farther into her Parkinson's, or a combination of both. But none the less, I know the DBS has been a benefit for my mother-in-law.
|One of my all-time favorite photos from our wedding reception|
My Mother-in-Law said her doctor insisted she carry
a champagne bottle with her at all times to help her with her balance 😉
So then we find ourselves at the beginning of November and my mother-in-law became hospitalized with her first major complication from her Parkinson's. She was diagnosed with aspiration pneumonia and had a feeding tube placed to help her have less aspiration of her food and liquids. She is currently in skilled care working on physical, occupational and speech therapies so she come back home.
Through all of this I am still amazed by my mother-in-law's strength. If she wasn't a strong person, she would have given up a long time ago, let alone in this last month. But I truly believe one of the things that keeps her going is the love for her family and her love of God. I talked about how my mother-in-law and I have grown closer through the years and that is partly due to her Parkinson's. I help her get groceries, or run errands, or take her to appointments, which has allowed us to get to know each other better. I feel so fortunate that I am able to help her and that I have gotten to know her on such a personal level.
|My Mother-in-Law and six of her seven grandkids|
(this photo was taken about a month before #7 was born)
I also love seeing the care and affection my children give her. I know my husband (and I) think back and wish what could have been for my mother-in-law as a grandma. And while yes, our kids aren't able to run around or get down on the floor to play with her, but the relationship they have with her is one of a kind. Our oldest Mr K. loves reading her books which is great for him because he's working on his reading skills, and great for her because she is a book lover. Our oldest daughter Miss A is always a big helper for her grandma, always offering to carry her purse and help her out in anyway when we run errands together. Miss L is so warm and tender with her grandma. Every time we see her she gives her a hug and does this soft rub of her hands. It is so precious to see. And finally Miss R; she loves to give her grandma big hugs and big cheesy smiles that then give a smile to my mother-in-law.
Parkinson's is one of the hardest diseases I think anyone can go through. It has always been on my mind obviously for the last fourteen years, but is has pretty much been the only thing I've been able to think about the last month. Simply put, Parkinson's is a sad, debilitating disease, and The Michael J. Fox Foundation isn't just there to help people figure out how to live with the disease, but they are dedicated to finding a cure for it. So this month I am going to be supporting their efforts by donating $0.50 for every comment made on my blog to their foundation. Please help me and my family by commenting all month long!
What a lovely tribute to your mother-in-law. She is indeed an incredibly strong woman. Wishing her all the best as she works at getting stronger to come back home. And she is lucky to have such a loving and caring daughter-in-law! Paula W.ReplyDelete
Thank you so much for your kind words and well wishes.Delete
What an awesome cause Val and I agree, your MIL is an amazing woman!!ReplyDelete
What a wonderful cause!! My grandmother suffered from Parkinson's.ReplyDelete
Thanks Tammy. Sorry to hear about your grandmother.Delete
What a wonderful tribute to your MIL! I had to laugh... remembering her with the champagne bottle that night! So happy she is getting stronger every day!ReplyDelete
Thank you! And yes! Her progression of strength since entering skilled care has been amazing!Delete
Have known her since high school and truly think of her often and how this could be any one of us. Always wonder how I would be such a situation. You are lucky to have her setting such an example and she is truly blessed to have you and the grandkids. Love is the best medicine of all.ReplyDelete
Love is definitely the best medicine. :)Delete
I've also known her from church and high school and am sorry to hear about the Parkinson's. I'm glad that she is doing better and that she has her family to love and assist her.ReplyDelete
We're happy to be there for her. :)Delete
I have been inspired by seeing your mother-in-laws strength through this last month. It is an incredible testimony to love, faith, and hope; both her's and the whole families. Thanks for sharing this story!ReplyDelete
The hardest part of having a disease like parkinson's is that you have the issues of being alone. Everyone needs someone who cares and will step up to make life easier. You do what she needs, wants, and remind her that she's important to everyone. Not a burden. Hugs to youReplyDelete
What a lovely tribute and another great cause. I'm wishing for a little peace and healing for you guys this holiday season. xoxoReplyDelete
My husband will be 81 years old next month and was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease 13 months ago. his main symptom were and rigidity or stiffness of his right-hand side.he also had some difficulty writing. The original diagnosis was confirmed three months later by a second neurologist. He was on one tablet of pramipexole (Sifrol), 0.25 mg three times a day. Four months ago his neurologist added Biperiden, 2 mg. he takes half a tablet of Biperiden three times a day. Since the original diagnosis, his stiffness has slowly increased. He lost touch with reality. Suspecting it was the medication I took him off the Siferol (with the doctor’s knowledge) and started him on PD natural herbal formula we ordered from GREEN HOUSE HERBAL CLINIC, I spoke to few people who used the treatment here in Canada and they all gave a positive response, his symptoms totally declined over a 6 weeks use of the Green House Parkinson’s disease natural herbal formula. He is now almost 81 and doing very well, the disease is totally reversed! (Visit their website www . Greenhouseherbalclinic . com) I am thankful to nature, herbs are truly gift from God. Share with friends!!ReplyDelete
I love hearing that your husband found relief from herbs. I will be sure to check them out. My mother-in-law has tried some in the past but hasn't found any changes from using them.Delete